Open Question: I had systems of bladder infection but this time it was more painful and blood was very visible in my urine.?

My dr called in cypro (sp ?) for me because I have a history of bladder infections and I do not have health insurance or the money to go to the dr right now. It seems to be helping but I have never seen blood in urine before. Since taking the Rx the blood in urine has stopped but still feels alittle sore in that area. I called dr but they want me to come in. could it just probably be kidney stone and it passed?

Open Question: Mywife has turned off her feelings and wants “her space” — what can I do?

My wife and I separated ten weeks ago as a result of a big fight. We have only been married a year. She is a hair dresser, and I am a teacher with a lot of education. In the fight, I told her to just leave. I didn't mean it, but leave she did. A few weeks later, she mentioned lunch at some point and asked if I wanted to come over and see the dog. After being angry she left, I started or tried to communicate with her, but she said she needed space and was no longer where I was with love and the marriage. She is going to counseling and said I needed to too. Since she has seen this counselor, she has grown more distant. She now doesn't answer my calls, rarely emails, amd has me feeling like crap. I still love her. I regret the fight, but she was saying things, too. I have practically begged to work on this, but she just wants to be left alone, she is unsure of the future. The harder I try, the worse it gets. She keeps saying marriage shouldn't be this hard, and most couples have great first years of marriage. I think that is untrue. She says, too, that this is too much work; she isn't working, just ignoring. Is it worth it to keep trying? I have made a fool of myself, calling and emailing, and I get nowhere. I don't understand how someone -- someone who once said I was the best man she ever knew and her mother (deceased) would have loved me -- can turn off her feelings. I admit I probably don't understand women, but this is cruel. She doesn't have much money, but she prefers that to being with me. The reason I told her to just go is that we just moved to a new house, and she still had her old one. She used to say in the old house the house was her stepson's, like he was in charge or his will would prevail -- he is ten. In this new house, I said that this house was not HIS but could be ours, she flipped, and that led to a fight. I feel helpless. I am at a loss how she can turn off feelings. She says she doesn't trust me yet for all the time we hade been together, I was the one person who never let her down. We don't fight well, but I wanted marriage counseling, but she didn't want that, just individual. I guess I have to backoff, but it doesn't make sense. I can't win her back by not seeing her. My friends and family say I should get out of this, but I knwo she has unique attitudes about things, and I certainly love her. She has to know by now I regret that argument and I am suffering (I have said as much many times). How can anyone be so cold?

Open Question: I’m planning to move to California directly after my senior year of high school. How much should I have saved?

I'm planning on moving to California directly after my senior year of high school. How much money should I have saved up? And where are some great dental schools(excluding community colleges) to become dental assistant? And also where are some decent areas with fairly decent prices?

Open Question: Who gets sued; 2nd party, the police, the media, and / or the state?

case: person is taken to jail cause someone made a false report. While in custody awaiting hearing, you find that the local papers and news are saying you were being charged for (serveral things). You have proof the charges are false, but but you choose to stay in custody instead of bailing out. Why spend thousands of bucks for something when you know you did nothing wrong, it's a waste of money. Well, while awaiting court. You hear the police telling media that you are guilty of (something). Weeks go by, and you finally get to go to court and prove them wrong. Supposedly, charges dropped. But during that time, ones job was lost, friends and people in town believe you are guilty of soemthingg haneous. While the people who made the false claim says it was just an error, But officially it was still filing a false report, right. Well, trying to find a new job. One finds that the charges are on showing on your background check. Thus, it makes me wonder, if innocent until proven guilty, and according to the training I had you aren't officially guilty until the judge makes a decision. Then if one showed the courts that that original charges were not true, and officially the judge dropped all charges. Then why are they on record in a background check?

Open Question: how would you feel about your husband going to the casino?

I hate it but my husband keeps doing it quite often..he doesn´t spend a lot of money (never more than 100 euros) but it is still money and our financial situation is really bad now (my husband has been unemployed for 10 months and we have debts)

Open Question: How can a 12 year old make money online?

I'm about a month away from being 13 and I would really appreciate some extra money. Anyone have any suggestions?

Open Question: e-stealth - ultimate spy software?

I bought the software. actually what they sell is the software from a trifinite dot org group. And it is for FREE. you also can get it for free from get jar dot com. the program called " blooover 2 " . jar file. I requested money back but they said that they do not provide with refunds. A n ultimate rip off. the software runs on my cell . Your cell needs to be JAVA and Bluetooth unables. Pls go to the trifinite dot org for more details. Just posting it to let you all guys know. If it helps at least only one person - my mission is accomplished :-) by the way - I wasnt able to get into any of cellphones. these days they are not vulnerable to such attacks.

Open Question: Mum’s or Dad’s your opinion needed NOT a parenting question ?

We need to redecorate our house and i came across a site that sells packages Do you think this silver and gold ones are worth the money ? http://www.furniture-packages.co.uk/gold-furniture-package.html

Open Question: Whats better to use when making a beat “Pricey Digital Keyboards or Computer Music Software like SONAR FL ETC?

Lets say I buy the best instrumental making software programs for my PC that is already on must of the high priced digital keyboards out there on the market. Is there really a difference when you end-up happening to connect a digital keyboard to a computer for advance input anyway? I feel a computer will always be more advance and up to date then a digital music keyboard also cheaper and I wouldn't have to worry about a digital keyboard crashing on me. With a computer, I'll basically just have to worry about viruses right?..... I mean it seems to me, the reason why people only buy digital keyboards that have the same exact software as a computer is because there big in the music industry so they must have it for portable reasons such as traveling for tours, clubs or negotiating over selling a instrumental. I know some people who just by a pricey digital keyboard just cause they have the money to purchase one.

Open Question: don’t even know why im bothering to ask this but….?

Okay my husband and I are TTC #2 we have been trying for a few months now with no luck. I purchased some of the $1 tests from the dollar store cause I'm a HPT testing addict haha and this way im not blowing tons of money. Anyhow I am on CD12 and I swear I can see the lightest positive line it is VERY light though at first I didn't even notice it and then I looked back and I was like wait a minute....I am planning to go to the store and buy one of the First Responce tests later on today anyhow,but in the mean time what do you all think? Thanks so much! Oops Sorry I meant 12dpo, haha i'm still in a little shock!

Open Question: why do a lot of people on here?

think that someone who doesnt have a job is a lay about and lazy and deserves nothing. dont get me wrong it annoys me when i see someone who has absolutely no intention of getting a job suck money out the government but a lot of unemployed people would love to work and just cant find work. not everyone is lucky to achieve a good education etc. so why dont these people deserve a little help? im sure if you lost your job and were finding it hard to get back in the workforce youd want the same help no?

Open Question: where can i download who wants to be a millionare for my nokia mobile?

please list the website i would like a webiste that doesnt cost money for downloads thanks sooo much =D xxxx

Open Question: what do i do now? single perent after 8 years. and petrified!!?

hi there, i would love some advice from anyone. ive not long told my boyfriend and the father of my 3 children i dont love him anymore. it sounds awful but believe me he was a out and out brute. and i use to think ho well he is only like that with me. at least the kids are happy and still have a dad, but i started to notice that when he came home from work thay would go up stairs to get away from him!! anyway he is gone,and im now on my own with no money and 3 kids and no confidence

Open Question: I was approached to do….?

There is this guy i have known for about 2 months and we are pretty close...we kinda are dating but have had a very good and erotic sexual relationship.... he lately approached me about me making good money doing porn movies with him or with other people... girls or guys.... at first i was shocked but now that i have had time to think about it it is starting to sound interesting and curious.... he said the money would be good and i could start out doing it with just him and then go from there with doing it with other guys and maybe girls.... My question is have any of you girls ever done porn or thought about it or have been approached to do it and if you have what did u think?.... it has got me thinking a whole lot about it..... girls, please give me your opinions here or via email or IM....thanks fyi... i am a 20 year old female

Open Question: How to get a student loan without a co-signer?

My brother is trying to start his sophomore year at college, However he owes money from last year still. Our father said he was taking care of it, but stopped paying after just 2 months and his credit is bad so he can't co-sign for a loan for my brother and my brother can't find anyone else to co-sign. He doesn't have much, if any credit history so he keeps being turned down for loan, and he is just and average person so there doesn't seem to be and grants out there for him. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Open Question: If a random stranger approached you and dropped a bag of money…?

In front of you and said, " For 3 million dollars would you strip for me and give me a lap dance in front of everyone?" And you were in the busy sidewalks of New York? For men, what if it was a dude asking you this? For women, what if it was a girl?

Open Question: How can I clean my large basement (with no remodeling) and get all the dust and insects out?

Our basement is ridiculously filthy. I made it my project to turn it around and make it look great. It's pretty large, it's just a room with one floor to itself. It has not been remodeled, nor do we have the money TO remodel it. It's where we keep our old clothes/things we hardly use/holiday items/etc. There's just so much dust and insects down there (which I REALLY want to get rid of, I hate bugs). How can I get rid of them without pesticides or expensive equipment and keep them out? I'm going to try to add something to the doors/windows to keep them out, but I don't know how I'm going to do that, any ideas? I really want to do this, so I'm up for any challenge to get my basement tidy. Any help/tips are extremely appreciated! 10 points to the most informative answer. =) Thanks!

Open Question: Whats better to use when making a beat “Pricey Digital Keyboards or Computer Music Software?”?

Lets say I buy the best instrumental making software programs for my PC that is already on must of the high priced digital keyboards out there on the market. Is there really a difference when you end-up happening to connect a digital keyboard to a computer for advance input anyway? I feel a computer will always be more advance and up to date then a digital music keyboard also cheaper and I wouldn't have to worry about a digital keyboard crashing on me. With a computer, I'll basically just have to worry about viruses right?..... I mean it seems to me, the reason why people only buy digital keyboards that have the same exact software as a computer is because there big in the music industry so they must have it for portable reasons such as traveling for tours, clubs or negotiating over selling a instrumental. I know some people who just by a pricey digital keyboard just cause they have the money to purchase one. Please, can someone give me a answer that makes sense to my queation. I would appriciated alot! Thankyou

Open Question: Custody of children & moving…?

3 years ago I was given temporary custody of my two children (in TX). Right after I got custody, my current husband deployed to Iraq and I moved from CO to TX because I was pregnant & needed to be around family. When he returned from Iraq we moved back to CO where he is stationed. He's now out of the Army and the kids and I have moved back to TX permanently. My ex, who now gets to see the kids every other weekend is making noises that he'll be taking me back to court soon. His girlfriend (who lives at his parents house with him and neither of them work) told my daughter, "you've lived with your Mom for 3 years, now it's only fair that you come live with us for 3." My only worry is that a judge will look at all the times we've moved and call me unstable. He's never moved. He's lived with his parents his entire life (except for when we were together), and the parents have money to afford attorney's. I don't. Do I have anything to worry about?

Open Question: How can a 14 year old make money online?

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