Open Question: do you think I’m being unreasonable?
me and my husband have been trying for a baby for 1 year i fell pregnant and am now 12 weeks, i have started putting money aside for when the baby is born, i also have a 8 year old son, and i no when the baby is born things will be tight. my problem is this my husband has started going out to the pub 3 to 4 nights a week and i feel that we cant afford for this. i don't mind him going out but he went out last night he got so drunk that he called in sick to his work, so while i'm working a 9 hour shift he is at home hungover losing money, my father is very well off and i think he thinks that my dad will just buy all the baby stuff but i dont want that thats not how i have been brought up i work for anything i have, my husband says i'm being out of order but he doesn't get paid for another two weeks and he expects me to fund his nights out plus pay bills and shopping, i just dont no what to do, i'm starting to think me and the kids will be better off on our own
