Open Question: feel so low about my son?
my son is 20, he and his girlfriend live together smoke dope and dont work. i try to help him get work i.e last weekend we sat on computer and he got a list to phone on Monday. His girlfriend phoned last night they have no money/food as they missed an appointment to sign on for benefit.
Also son has not phoned the jobs we looked at. I am at my wits end and so angry. I work full time and have house to do over week end. I feel just like leaving them to it and not going down with food but feel guilty.
In addition they sell all their stuff, even birthday presents i bought them. why cant they just get a damn job like everyone else.
My husband has a job for him (he only has to ask and promise to attend everyday) but he started with my husbands firm once before and had to be sacked as my son never worked a full week.
But he does not ask for his job back. I know his girlfriend is a nightmare and does not want him to work. her family are 3 generations of welfare claimants what do i do?
