Financial talk

Ok, earlier I answered a girl's question who asked if she should delete her profile on here cause her husband told her too. I said don't let a man control you...But I am kinda being a hypocrite. Ok hear me out, I have known this girl, Crissie for almost 5 years. She is one of my closest friends. But....She is a bit of a s*u*. She sleeps around, uses guys for homes, rides, drugs, food, clothes, take care of her children..money basically. Then when they get boring, she moves on. She's also a compulsive liar. She is the kind of person who will be the person she thinks you want her to be. It's dumb really, but when we are alone, she's the perfect friend. I have told her I don't like her lifestyle, but it's her life. Now my love, my fiance, Keith, hates her. He says she uses me also, I don't think she does, but maybe I am blind to it. She has lived with us a couple times, free of charge. She hit a little close to home when she used his cousin, my soon to be family. Anways, He says she is a bad influence on me. He is in Iraq right now, and doesn't want me around her. He said maybe we can hang out again when he gets home. I understand where he is coming from, it's really not personal reasons cause of his cousin. She can be a bad person, but I love her. And why should I turn my back on her? I understand he's just trying to better my life. I mean..I don't know. What is your opinion? Thats how he feels. And I see where he is coming from, but she likes her life now. I can't help her if she doesn't want it. chel_bhell: He has. I've asked many times. He's explained. Him or her. Simple asw that. He says we do dumb stuff when we are around each other, and he's scared, worried more like it, that she will pull me into her man games. I mean I understand why he doesnt want me to see her while he's gone, he's not here to keep an eye..sounds like he's my dad, but I need her now more than ever. he's there, 6000 miles from me. I have a 3 month old daughter who has been in the hospital since she was born, this is just a rough year for me...he doesn't seem to get it.. adrienne: Can't. Promised I wouldn't. She has called a couple times, and I gave in. Felt extremely guilty after. He said if I continue our friendship, it's done between the two of us. Him or her. lyndzi83 : You are right. She is that kind of person. She just bats her eyes, and poof. Whatever she wants she has. Always kind of envied her for it. But she has not worked for anything...well I guess sex can be work. But thank you. I think you put it best. Thats what he says, he doesn't want her around our children in fear they might act like her if she is around a lot, basd D : Right, but we've been friends since 04. I have never picked up any bad habits from her. We are alike in some ways, but so different in most.