Open Question: how can i bring back my trust for my husband, it is destroying our relationship. i dont believe in him anymore
even if he's trying his best to win my trust back. how can i remove the negative thoughts i have for him. its been two years since that incident of infidelity and cheating. i thought that i could learn to accept that incident and move on. it seems that i haven't really moved on. i always doubt his actions whenever i give him money, goes out in our car all by himself. i always think that he is not telling me the truth. although he has been trying so hard to become the man that he should be, that i want him to be. i love him still because i need him to take care of our home and children. i dont want our children to grow up without a father. i dont want us to get separated, it would not be fair for my children, they love him so much. i love him too, the passion is still there. i just want to remove this doubts i have of him. i always think that he is not telling me the truth. how do i remove this from my thinking from my system. please give me some advice.