Open Question: I am torn on whether to move back home or stay here?
I am 9 weeks pregnant. I recently moved to Indiana with my fiance because down in Florida it was getting really hard for us so we came up here to have his mom help us out a bit. It was only supposed to be until October, but now he wants to extend it for another 4 years, because in 4 years he gets 45,000 dollars. Well this year in october he is getting 15,000 dollars. I know it's not my money, and I would never tell him what to do with it unless he asked for my input. I love him with all my heart, but my family is down in Florida. I have a HUGE family. & I miss them. It's a bit more expensive for living down south than it is up here, but I still believe that we'll be able to make it okay and still be happy. But he is hell bent on staying up here. What should I do? I am afraid this will tear us apart.
Is there anything I could say to change his mind?
