Financial talk

hey there everyone i have been with my boyfriend for seven years now. we have been throw a lot of stuff but after the last years problem we have not had any major problems since then. I moved in wit him jan08 once i found out i was having his baby, i had a misscarriage at 22 weeks we decided that we are still gonna get engaged in may but he changed it and hasnt told me a date so. but he gave me a ring and told me he wanted to be with me forever. also we plan to get married in 09 may or july and we suppose to start buying a house in sept together and im worried that we want get married and he will keep pushing the days to yrs. I told him i didnt want a big wedding and we could get a court house wedding and have a big reception. now he saws that he wants to think about it but why if u wanna get married it should not matter we want have more money if we wait a yr from now thats how i feel. what do u think about this and why is he stalling im moving out if he dont because 7yrs he should no he is good with responsiblities like making sure that things get done making sure that me and his family comes first. when i was carring our baby thats when i noticed that he was really a good man he was there the whole 5mos he did everything i had to stop working at 6ws cause my job wouldnt allow me to lift and no lit duties were for me. so thats why i moved in with him and we were suppose to get engaged in may08 and married in july or may 09 when our money str8 and i graduate from college (RN) but my mom says that he's stalling he just making time to see what on the market. but why has he been here these past seven yrs if he dont care i dnt want to push him and it dnt wrk out put once we in its for better or worst no divorces. i just dont want to be wasting time then this turns out to be a waste. things been great these past 2 yrs since our last huge problems and we have growed really and i just want 2 b wit only him but feels like he dnt want the same he said he do, im confused