Open Question: We both want seperation but im scared?
My wife and me have been having problems for awhile. The begining of the marriage I had a hot temper and called her foul names out of anger. I have learned to control my temper and have not called her names anymore. I grew up in a rough house and didn't know it was so hurtfull till we had some heart to hearts. I shrugged off the name calling when I was little so I thought she could. Now she wants me to move so we can grow and she can get her confidence back. My belittling of her has made her doubt herself. She says she can't bring herself to forgive me for the past. I believe she wants to work things out but I'm afraid that a seperation will lead to the end of our marriage. I love her and regret what I have done. I at first told her I would change, but now I am trying to show it. I make good money am will help her while I pay rent somewhere else. I am also afraid I will build some anger up of being kicked out and having to waste money on rent, when I have a house.
