Open Question: How do I work towards fixing the co-dependency marriage i have created?
Due to his family & professional problems he has become very nasty. He was such a laid back responsible caring person, but the problems he has seen in our 2 yr marriage have morphed him into someone else. Im standing by him but the insults have become unbearabe. He has taken on financial responsibility, but for that we had to move. Ive come back home to visit for a family wedding & he said such hurtful things when i was leaving that it is such an effort to maintain my composure. I have seen improvements since he started working but he is unhappy with the job & will just say vicious things. At the same time he will do kind gestures for my family & is always respectful & considerate towards them, but very vicious to me. He will be considerate of my needs, but hell scream & insult me to the point that it is too much for me. he is trying to get back to normal & i see hope but how do get him to talk to me with respect & love when he is so full of hatred & rage?
