Financial talk

your lover and you have been in battle for 6months or more now about the same thing and now added on events. your lover lives with a woman who suppose to have a girlfriend (you never met)my. girlfriend resides on the first floor and young lady in attic area. 3am you talk to your girlfriend and 4am she calls and tell you that she was in bed with some booty shorts on and the young lady knocked at her door to borrow money to go get weed because she can't sleep without it. the young lady phone rangs but she didn't answer it, your girlfriend says to her answer your phone because I don't want no mess and lady says no. moments later the young lady girlfriend barges in and says I KNEW YOU BITCHES WERE FUCKING! your girlfriend says she covered up and all hell broke loose than after. your girlfriend had to leave the house because the police supposely got involved. than your girlfriend friend tells your girlfriend she didn't act like that until she seen you dressed up at a lesbian white party.now both girlfriends has told stories that the next women they get involve with would be a femme. so one day after this story I asked her what did her friend look like and find out she describe to me the lady she lives with. now story told by my lover the young lady told her woman the same thing that my lady told me. now before her moving in or losing her place we been in battle and together 3yrs off and on. in june we had just started back talking only for me to find out she was 3months behind in her rent. she bost and bragged about what this young lady have, even called me a pet name thats shes never and found a excuse to why. these young lady have met late evenings hanging out my lady has invited her over me not knowing until 6-8months later and I had to ask her because my heart felt something. she said she started hanging out with this young lady because I stopped telling her she was beautiful (actually look) but i could compliment other women(very jealous, say shes not intimidated or don't have insecurities but i believe different)she liked the attention she was giving her..honestly people what would you think your girlfriend had been doing or done? because she keep saying to me she loves me more than anything and wouldn't lie to me and never done ANYTHING with this young lady what so ever. yet she never SECURED US! ME! she made a promise she said to this FRIEND that she wouldn't tell anyone where she lived or give out number. when she moved inshe had no cell phone so she called me restricted which were unanswered and I had to meet her in a parking lot to see her and our babyboy. I'm trying to except what I'm thinking because I was given nothing but, assumptions and stories to go on. what do you come with if your spoouse gave you that story? would you picture it as I did? and come up with the same DAMN thing I did?because i'm not convinced of anything else.